Body Language Decoder : Dating

Body Language Decoder Part2 : Dating

He extends his palm.

When a guy offers his palm to you face up, you know hands down he’s hooked. He’s literally and figuratively reaching out to the person he’s speaking with in an attempt to connect on a deeper emotional level. Even cooler: Our brains respond to hand gestures with heightened alertness (we have a special region that processes only hand shapes), so you’ll actually feel the love.

He talks with his hands.

A guy who frequently gestures with his hands while speaking is a very good communicator. Between the sheets, this expressive hottie will be attentive and generous.

He proudly holds your hand in public.

He wants to show the world that you’re his. That indicates that he’s the type who craves a close partnership.

He touches the small of your back, your upper thigh, or your sides.

If guy is sexually aroused, he’ll touch these sensual, sensitive areas, not even bothering with the gradual buildup, like holding your hand or stroking your arm.

He strokes his stomach.

A midriff massager craves the spotlight and needs steady verbal reminders of what an absolute catch you think he is. However, when it comes to throwing fond feelings your way, this tongue-tied cutie is much more action than words. But if you want him to shower you with the affection he’s capable of, you’ll have to stroke his ego as often he strokes himself.

He kiss is long and lusty

“ A full-blown smooch that lasts more than 10 seconds shows he’s had sex with you on his brain all day,” says Audrey Nelson, PhD, author of You Don’t Say: Navigating Nonverbal Communication Between the Sexes. The sack sessions are bound to be intense.

He licks his lips.

A man in lust will literally look like he’s hungry, because on a carnal level, that’s exactly what he is. So if you catch him doing these lip moves while he’s looking at you, chances are good that you’re wet his erotic appetite.

He leans in close.

A dude who wants to get intimate will often invade your personal space. In normal interactions, men position themselves a foot and a half to 2 feet away. But a guy who has sex with you on the brain will stand less than an arm’s length from you or closer because he’s trying to connect physically and create intimacy.

He laughs easily.

The guy is relaxed and able to be himself with you. “He’s letting his guard down and comfortably expressing his emotions, which a man usually does when he’s thinking long term,” says relationship expert Jeffrey Bernstein, PhD, coauthor of “Why Can’t You Read My Mind?”

He says good-bye by planting one on you.

If you and your guy regularly part with a lengthy lip-lock, then damn you’re lucky! A man with good-bye MO is incredibly passionate and highly erotic.

He slouches his shoulders.

When a man finds a woman’s actions to be adorable or sweet, he gets the urge to hold her. As a result, his shoulders automatically round off as though he’s about to take her into his arms. So does this mean you’ve suddenly lost all sex appeal? Not necessarily. The shoulder slump does indicate attraction but, even better, with a serious emotional undercurrent. So in the case of a long-term lover, his shoulder roll is likely a sign that one of your quirks has tugged on his heartstrings. And if a brand-new dude pulls that move, chances are, he’s feeling a true connection to you. So forget all the flirting formalities and be real with him—this lad’s looking to go deeper.

His touch is firm.

Stronger contact from your lust charged cutie usually means he has one thing on his mind. And if he’s a constant groper, he’s insatiable, says David Givens, PhD, an expert in nonverbal communication. He’s up for sex anytime, anywhere.

He says good-bye with a soft peck.

If 9 times out of 10 he plants a soft, tender kiss on your cheek, then your beau is the sensitive type. This is a paternal gesture that shows he wants to take care of you.

He strokes your head or back.

For this touchy-feely guy, sex and love go hand in hand. That’s why he uses a sensuous stroke to let you know he cares. He will take his time in bed with you and constantly suggest new ways to mix up your routine. His zest for novelty extend to his daily life as well—he’s always looking for opportunities to excite his senses. So keep him on his toes by taking him on a surprise weekend trip or introducing him to an exotic cuisine.

He has a big, broad expression, often with everything showing – teeth, gums…cavities.

Consider it the “Wow, you give me butterflies. I’m head over heels’ smile.” If it’s accompanied by a hearty laugh, look out. If he were any more into you, he might drop down on one knee.

He’s a combo hug-and-kisser.

It’ll be a wild ride with this up-for-anything boy! Men who do hug-and-kiss combos crave variety and excitement. He’s full of surprises, both in and out of bed. And he needs a woman can keep up.

He sits on his hand.

If a guy is sitting on his mitts, he’s trying to control what’s coming out of his mouth. But this is more about not wanting to screw up than it is about withholding information. He’s worried that he’s going to do something that will displease you – he wants to put his best foot forward so he’s disciplining himself.

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Body Language Decoder : First meeting

Body Language Decoder

Whether you've just met your man or are long-term loves, this guide deciphers the meanings behind his actions.

Introduction

What chick doesn’t like to check out a man with a hot body?

Beyond sizing up his ass, er, assets, though, you can also gauge crucial information with a simple glance at him.

By picking up on the subtle nonverbal messages he’s sending, you’ll discover tons of clues about his personality and how he really feels about you.

Let’s to learn everything from what kind of lover he’ll be to whether he’s lying, and more.

First meeting

He positions his chest and shoulders toward you, even though he may be looking at something else.

Whether it’s you, your best friend, or the keg in the corner, whatever a boy aims his upper body at is the most meaningful thing in the room to him. So if one night, a tasty man-morsel approaches your posse, you and your friends won’t need to fight for the fella’s affections; study his body language and you’ll already know who he’s after.

He holds a looking, piercing gaze.

Although you may think he’s smitten, he could be playing you. Holding intense eye contact for more than five seconds doesn’t happen naturally, so he may be using the look as a seduction technique to get you into bed.

He half smiles.

There’s a good chance this guy just wants a no-strings fling. “A sneerlike grin is an indication that he’s not being sincere with you,” points out body language expert Patti Wood. “It’s a split-face gesture: Each side of his face is telling a different story”.

He lifts his eyebrows.

When a man sees someone he’s into, he’ll automatically life and lower his eyebrows, wrinkling his forehead in the process. But you’ll have to keep your eyes peeled to catch a glimpse of this telltale signal. Anthropologists call it the eyebrow flash because it’s usually lighting-quick.

He touches his belt or jeans pocket.

If he touches his belt, hangs his thumb off a front pocket, or even scratches himself down there, you may need to hose him down – he’s subconsciously trying to draw your attention to his, ahem, assets.

He stands with his legs spread apart.

A guy will often stand with his legs spread apart and pelvis facing you when he’s hot for you. It’s a primal, biological instinct, and most guys don’t even know they’re doing it.

He stands or sits with his toes pointed toward each other.

This means he’s feeling a little unsure of himself. So if a boy at the bar is striking this pose, he’s digging you but needs reassurance that the interest is mutual.

He has a coy, close-mouth grin that shows only at the corners of his upturned mount.

Rest assured he likes you, but he doesn’t want to reveal too much too soon. He’s probably a bit shy (and possibly in secure) so he won’t put all of his emotions on the line right away.

He tilts his head slightly to the side when your eyes meet.

The head tilt is a subconscious come hither signal to any femme the guy has feelings for. So if that man you’ve been making eyes with for the last hour gives you the head tilts that’s your cue to go in for the kill and introduce yourself or even send him a drink.

He smiles with his top lip stretched wide and his front teeth just barely peeking through.

This tight-lipped look is a polite signal that while he enjoys your company, the romantic spark may not be there. But that doesn’t mean his feelings can’t develop.

He has a devilish smirk where he raises the right or left side of his closed mouth.

You’ll have to play hard to get with this boy if you want to hook him. A guy with a grin like this thrives when presented with a bit of a challenge. Catch him if you can.

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