Body Language Decoder : Dating

Body Language Decoder Part2 : Dating

He extends his palm.

When a guy offers his palm to you face up, you know hands down he’s hooked. He’s literally and figuratively reaching out to the person he’s speaking with in an attempt to connect on a deeper emotional level. Even cooler: Our brains respond to hand gestures with heightened alertness (we have a special region that processes only hand shapes), so you’ll actually feel the love.

He talks with his hands.

A guy who frequently gestures with his hands while speaking is a very good communicator. Between the sheets, this expressive hottie will be attentive and generous.

He proudly holds your hand in public.

He wants to show the world that you’re his. That indicates that he’s the type who craves a close partnership.

He touches the small of your back, your upper thigh, or your sides.

If guy is sexually aroused, he’ll touch these sensual, sensitive areas, not even bothering with the gradual buildup, like holding your hand or stroking your arm.

He strokes his stomach.

A midriff massager craves the spotlight and needs steady verbal reminders of what an absolute catch you think he is. However, when it comes to throwing fond feelings your way, this tongue-tied cutie is much more action than words. But if you want him to shower you with the affection he’s capable of, you’ll have to stroke his ego as often he strokes himself.

He kiss is long and lusty

“ A full-blown smooch that lasts more than 10 seconds shows he’s had sex with you on his brain all day,” says Audrey Nelson, PhD, author of You Don’t Say: Navigating Nonverbal Communication Between the Sexes. The sack sessions are bound to be intense.

He licks his lips.

A man in lust will literally look like he’s hungry, because on a carnal level, that’s exactly what he is. So if you catch him doing these lip moves while he’s looking at you, chances are good that you’re wet his erotic appetite.

He leans in close.

A dude who wants to get intimate will often invade your personal space. In normal interactions, men position themselves a foot and a half to 2 feet away. But a guy who has sex with you on the brain will stand less than an arm’s length from you or closer because he’s trying to connect physically and create intimacy.

He laughs easily.

The guy is relaxed and able to be himself with you. “He’s letting his guard down and comfortably expressing his emotions, which a man usually does when he’s thinking long term,” says relationship expert Jeffrey Bernstein, PhD, coauthor of “Why Can’t You Read My Mind?”

He says good-bye by planting one on you.

If you and your guy regularly part with a lengthy lip-lock, then damn you’re lucky! A man with good-bye MO is incredibly passionate and highly erotic.

He slouches his shoulders.

When a man finds a woman’s actions to be adorable or sweet, he gets the urge to hold her. As a result, his shoulders automatically round off as though he’s about to take her into his arms. So does this mean you’ve suddenly lost all sex appeal? Not necessarily. The shoulder slump does indicate attraction but, even better, with a serious emotional undercurrent. So in the case of a long-term lover, his shoulder roll is likely a sign that one of your quirks has tugged on his heartstrings. And if a brand-new dude pulls that move, chances are, he’s feeling a true connection to you. So forget all the flirting formalities and be real with him—this lad’s looking to go deeper.

His touch is firm.

Stronger contact from your lust charged cutie usually means he has one thing on his mind. And if he’s a constant groper, he’s insatiable, says David Givens, PhD, an expert in nonverbal communication. He’s up for sex anytime, anywhere.

He says good-bye with a soft peck.

If 9 times out of 10 he plants a soft, tender kiss on your cheek, then your beau is the sensitive type. This is a paternal gesture that shows he wants to take care of you.

He strokes your head or back.

For this touchy-feely guy, sex and love go hand in hand. That’s why he uses a sensuous stroke to let you know he cares. He will take his time in bed with you and constantly suggest new ways to mix up your routine. His zest for novelty extend to his daily life as well—he’s always looking for opportunities to excite his senses. So keep him on his toes by taking him on a surprise weekend trip or introducing him to an exotic cuisine.

He has a big, broad expression, often with everything showing – teeth, gums…cavities.

Consider it the “Wow, you give me butterflies. I’m head over heels’ smile.” If it’s accompanied by a hearty laugh, look out. If he were any more into you, he might drop down on one knee.

He’s a combo hug-and-kisser.

It’ll be a wild ride with this up-for-anything boy! Men who do hug-and-kiss combos crave variety and excitement. He’s full of surprises, both in and out of bed. And he needs a woman can keep up.

He sits on his hand.

If a guy is sitting on his mitts, he’s trying to control what’s coming out of his mouth. But this is more about not wanting to screw up than it is about withholding information. He’s worried that he’s going to do something that will displease you – he wants to put his best foot forward so he’s disciplining himself.

See you next post baby!! which Body Language Decoder Part 3 : Seriously Involved.